I was thinking about Monday’s post and I realized that before I can really delve into what we think about when we think of romance, we need to know what romance is. Is it just a feeling? Is it a romantic moment? Is it just a polite way of saying lust or desire?
Define: Romance
When asking Google to define Romance, it comes up with two version of Romance: a noun and a verb.
I really like to think of romance as an action word. I REALLY like the third definition of Romance as a verb; to “Engage in a love affair” – That’s so AWESOME to me. To Engage. To be actively involved in romance.
As husbands, I feel we must constantly engage in romancing our wives. Whether it’s in the little things, like doing the dishes or laundry, or in big ways like taking her on a romantic vacation to the beach. And while DOING things for your wife is great, there are always other aspects to romance: the words you use, how you touch your wife, how you treat her when you come together in the evening. All of these, I feel, are just some ways that I define romance.
Your turn
How do you define romance? Is it something that’s reserved only for the bedroom? Is it something that only happens around candles on a table? What do you think of when you think of romance? Comment and share your thoughts!
You’re hitting the nail on the head sir. We wives appreciate your advice to other men.
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Glad you like it!